After our group discussion done, our finding that most of the people would not agree to send their elder parents to old folk’s home. There are some reasons not to send their parents to old folk’s home. The reason not sending their elder parent to old folk home is that they feel the sense of responsible to care their own parents. Some attitudes of young people forgetting and ignoring the elderly are considered acts of irresponsible. It is our responsibility to take care our parents as dad and mom care us when we are small. The majorities of parents have been play their responsible to be good parents, have raised their children with great care and love, and enjoy happy family relationships. After giving their lives over to raising their children, these parents deserve the comfort, safety, protection and love that their own children can provide in their older years. When these parents reach their older years, children are responsible to treat them accordingly, as elderly people at some point, will need to be treated patiently, and not given up or to dump in old folk’s home.
Besides that, the society people also have strong felling of love and appreciation to their only parents and will not sending their parents to old folk’s home. We have discuss this issue and find out that how they define their parents, some of us claim that their parents is the noblest people, some said that parent is their prefect idol to everything like love, attention. In addition, some youth believe that their parents are the special person in the world, what she said mean that without them they cannot support their life from baby, child till she grow up and manage to live independent. The way they mention and claim about their parents really can fell the strong love relationship between the children and the parents. No matter our parents are old and wrinkle, but deep in our heart, the first thing children desire to do is take care of them. If we just mention to our childish days we can understand that parents almost did every things for us honestly, so how can we forget about this whole things. The children is the person that do nothing about the ability to live while in contrast the two people that is our parents who spent all of their life to grow us up, so how can we just forget about all these feelings which were spent for us. This is the reason why mostly people would not send their parents to old folk’s home. Furthermore, parents are also the source of happiness to the children. We find that is another reason people in society would keep staying their elder people in their home. Most of us would state that our happiness that we felling now is award by our parents, because without them all of us will don’t have chance to live on the world. Besides that, they believe that their parents although old but give them the spirit and strength to lead their life because they always give them direction and parents love that nothing else can instead. Since that our parents is just more giving then receive happiness from us, so it is the time for us to show that we also the source of happiness to our parents. Everybody in this world should always remember in mind that our parents the person will always in there takes care of us when we are sick, comfort us when we are sad, definitely laugh with us when we are happy. It is felling that really hurt and sad to find that some people in society willing to send their parents to old folk home.
Moreover, the religion aspect is also one of the reasons why people would not send their parents to old folk’s home. The fact is that there is no religion that teaches its followers to disobey or dump them in old folk’s home with their parents when they are old. As part of the east community that has high value, sending parent to the old folk home is not our culture and is the not accepted from our value. Our Asian religion is more appreciate the elder and would never agree us to misbehave and dump them in old folk’s home or fell them are a burden. Mostly religion would state we will never pay finish all scarifies and the love of our parents. A human being is not allowed by god to neglect their elder parents and especially let them silence enduring the agony and pain in the rest of their life in such old folk home. In fact Islam teaches that “Paradise is at the feet of mothers” and Hindus regard parents as a goddess of love. A Jewish Proverb says “God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers”. All wise men of the past seen to agree that a man who does not please his mother it whatever he does will never find true happiness in his own life. Seem that the religion aspect also influence whether people will send the elder parents to old folk home. The elder parents make the home complete is the reason why people would keep staying with their parents in house. Part of the family members in the society believes that the elder parents blessing is the important for their child. In addition, the grandchildren of old folk also required the love and guidance of their grandparents. The eldest parents can be good caretaker of them and help their grandchild to understand more about the great culture and traditions. Old folk also got many experience and skill that can their son and daughter learned from them. Old folk can also teach and play with their child when they work in office. Furthermore, it would have many disadvantages for whom sending their elder parents to old folk home, they cannot have the advantages . The last but not least, as a remember to all the member of society about that one day we would be old too and this would happen for ourselves. Can we imagine what we would feel then? When you spent your whole life to take care of your children but what is your prize? Living in a folk’s home? All of us may heard this proverb from our parents or grandparents that “the life is the repetition of history” so the history would repeat for ourselves. Whatever happens to us is the mirror of what we have already done to the others especially to our parents. As a result, believe me we will appreciate more a person especially our own parents when they gone and leave us, so appreciate your parents when they still beside you.
After our group discussion done, our finding that most of the people would not agree to send their elder parents to old folk’s home. There are some reasons not to send their parents to old folk’s home.
ReplyDeleteThe reason not sending their elder parent to old folk home is that they feel the sense of responsible to care their own parents. Some attitudes of young people forgetting and ignoring the elderly are considered acts of irresponsible. It is our responsibility to take care our parents as dad and mom care us when we are small. The majorities of parents have been play their responsible to be good parents, have raised their children with great care and love, and enjoy happy family relationships. After giving their lives over to raising their children, these parents deserve the comfort, safety, protection and love that their own children can provide in their older years. When these parents reach their older years, children are responsible to treat them accordingly, as elderly people at some point, will need to be treated patiently, and not given up or to dump in old folk’s home.
Besides that, the society people also have strong felling of love and appreciation to their only parents and will not sending their parents to old folk’s home. We have discuss this issue and find out that how they define their parents, some of us claim that their parents is the noblest people, some said that parent is their prefect idol to everything like love, attention. In addition, some youth believe that their parents are the special person in the world, what she said mean that without them they cannot support their life from baby, child till she grow up and manage to live independent. The way they mention and claim about their parents really can fell the strong love relationship between the children and the parents. No matter our parents are old and wrinkle, but deep in our heart, the first thing children desire to do is take care of them. If we just mention to our childish days we can understand that parents almost did every things for us honestly, so how can we forget about this whole things. The children is the person that do nothing about the ability to live while in contrast the two people that is our parents who spent all of their life to grow us up, so how can we just forget about all these feelings which were spent for us. This is the reason why mostly people would not send their parents to old folk’s home.
ReplyDeleteFurthermore, parents are also the source of happiness to the children. We find that is another reason people in society would keep staying their elder people in their home. Most of us would state that our happiness that we felling now is award by our parents, because without them all of us will don’t have chance to live on the world. Besides that, they believe that their parents although old but give them the spirit and strength to lead their life because they always give them direction and parents love that nothing else can instead. Since that our parents is just more giving then receive happiness from us, so it is the time for us to show that we also the source of happiness to our parents. Everybody in this world should always remember in mind that our parents the person will always in there takes care of us when we are sick, comfort us when we are sad, definitely laugh with us when we are happy. It is felling that really hurt and sad to find that some people in society willing to send their parents to old folk home.
Moreover, the religion aspect is also one of the reasons why people would not send their parents to old folk’s home. The fact is that there is no religion that teaches its followers to disobey or dump them in old folk’s home with their parents when they are old. As part of the east community that has high value, sending parent to the old folk home is not our culture and is the not accepted from our value. Our Asian religion is more appreciate the elder and would never agree us to misbehave and dump them in old folk’s home or fell them are a burden. Mostly religion would state we will never pay finish all scarifies and the love of our parents. A human being is not allowed by god to neglect their elder parents and especially let them silence enduring the agony and pain in the rest of their life in such old folk home. In fact Islam teaches that “Paradise is at the feet of mothers” and Hindus regard parents as a goddess of love. A Jewish Proverb says “God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers”. All wise men of the past seen to agree that a man who does not please his mother it whatever he does will never find true happiness in his own life. Seem that the religion aspect also influence whether people will send the elder parents to old folk home.
ReplyDeleteThe elder parents make the home complete is the reason why people would keep staying with their parents in house. Part of the family members in the society believes that the elder parents blessing is the important for their child. In addition, the grandchildren of old folk also required the love and guidance of their grandparents. The eldest parents can be good caretaker of them and help their grandchild to understand more about the great culture and traditions. Old folk also got many experience and skill that can their son and daughter learned from them. Old folk can also teach and play with their child when they work in office. Furthermore, it would have many disadvantages for whom sending their elder parents to old folk home, they cannot have the advantages .
The last but not least, as a remember to all the member of society about that one day we would be old too and this would happen for ourselves. Can we imagine what we would feel then? When you spent your whole life to take care of your children but what is your prize? Living in a folk’s home? All of us may heard this proverb from our parents or grandparents that “the life is the repetition of history” so the history would repeat for ourselves. Whatever happens to us is the mirror of what we have already done to the others especially to our parents. As a result, believe me we will appreciate more a person especially our own parents when they gone and leave us, so appreciate your parents when they still beside you.